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writes:Last night I was shocked by my husband's revelation.He said "Sit down. We need to talk, it's important."I asked him what it was, and he said "I've got sexual feelings for your dad. I hate myself for having them, I mean, I've never felt this way towards any other guy."He said he feels sickened by his own thoughts.I feel sick thinking about it, and wonder if he's really gay or bisexual.I asked him why he had these feelings, but he said he doesn't know himself, and he feels repulsed.I feel we should get counselling, but he rejected that idea, so how do I deal with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kimm  +, writes (31 July 2009):
Aa a gay man, I think your question is 99% not real.
"I asked him why he had these feelings, but he said he doesn't know himself, and he feels repulsed."
I could feel that some teenage girl who wants to be a writer just made a story. There's no "Why" and "Impluse" in this gay category. Trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): oh my gosh that's crazy! I think he's brave to be so honest with you! Let him work out what he wants, give him space. He needs to do a lot of thinking.
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