A
female
age
51-59,
*abrona
writes: My husband still tells his ex-girlfriend that he loves her. Am I wrong to fell up-set about this? I don't mind them still being friends, I find it very disrespectul that he contiues to tell her he loves her after I have told him how I feel about the situation.
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
Hi babe, i dont think that is something he should be doing, especially knowing you arnt ok with him..you have made me aware he knows you dont like it, and you have clearly warned him.. i think it is time to say, you change and dont say it to her again or me and u r over.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x
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male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (1 July 2007):
I don't think that his telling her he still loves her is a good sign. However, I would proceed the way AskEve recommends.
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female
reader, AskEve +, writes (1 July 2007):
Why does he still keep in touch with his ex? Do they have children together? It may be he loves her as a person but is not "in love" with her but even so she is his EX for a reason! Ask him why he says this to her and let him know it upsets you, after all, it might give her ideas that he's not over her. Let him know also that you don't mind him being friends with her and keeping in touch but if he refuses to stop saying it to her then it shows he doesn't respect your feelings. Ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
Eve
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