Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2006): Divorce. He's obviously a bad person.
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Not sure about filing a police report, but I'm pretty sure that filing for divorce may be the ticket here. At least he'll have to cough up the vehicle when you split up your property in the settlement. Good luck.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): Also, it just sounds like you want a way to hurt him or punish him and no wonder he acts like that...you both are behaving ridiculously.
Some forgiving is in order and some rededication.
If this sounds too painful for you to do; divorce him and move on.
Stop the fighting; start the loving Baby.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): Have to say that this doesn't compute. Why would he hide a vehicle from you if you found out he cheated on you? It would be that he hid it from you if HE found out YOU were cheating.
Either way; it's abusive and controlling of him to take the vehicle away from you as punishment, he's your husband and not your father.
There is more going on here then what has been stated.
How long has he had this affair and has he told you why he did it? Have you gone to counseling?
Has this issue been resolved?
What is the history of your relationship?
I say call a lawyer and see what he/she advises.
...............................
A
male
reader, dr doom +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Stop being so materialistic and get a real life
hell women maybe if he hid your vibrator we could help you
...............................
A
female
reader, bonym  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Or Judge Alex Ferrer, he is brilliant. XxX
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): Have you tried Judge Judy?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe both own (names on registration)...Yes, he was pissed off because i found he had cheated on me. this was his way of gettig back!! I like to first response I dont want him to thank he's got me by taking the vehicle but i am pissed!!! Thanks for your replies....
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe both own (names on registration)...Yes, he was pissed off because i found he had cheated on me. this was his way of gettig back!! I like to first response I dont want him to thank he's got me by taking the vehicle but i am pissed!!! Thanks for your replies....
...............................
A
female
reader, Wendyg +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Well im guessing he did it to get a reaction... Did you ask him why he did it ? Perhaps dont show your bothered as hes trying to provoke you, if he sees its not working (i know it is) then he may just give up.. its a bit of a silly game, but maybe you did something to upset him ? Think you may have to have a little chat with him and see whats on his mind!
...............................
A
male
reader, guardian87 +, writes (24 August 2006):
 i agree with the comment above: why would he do that? find that out first and then ask one of us about it. Was there a fight between u two at the time? Has he been acting liek this at any other time? More info is needed, but if he wont tell you, then maybe you should get the cops on this one (unless if he technically owns the car, then there is nothing you can really do about it). But really, if there are two other cars, then y worry about the third so much? Sorry, but unless if u think hes gambling the money from the car (which he may have sold for all we know) and has a problem with this, then you guys have an issue.
Agian, more info is needed
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): You probably could but what purpose would that serve?
Why would he hide it?
What is your marriage like? What are the problems you have had and how were they addressed? Were they even resolved?
More info please.
...............................
| 