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writes: Im 19 and I think ive fallen for one of my close friends who's also a work collegue. I literally cant stop thinking about him and get jealous whenever i see him talking to other girls. I feel like im going to burst if i dont tell him but im worried that if i do tell him and he doesnt feel the same (which i dont think he does because he's always flirting with other people), it'll make things really awkward between us. Im tempted to tell him one evening and then if he says hes doesnt feel the same, blame it on being drunk and pretend i wasnt being seriousshould i tell him and risk loosing or ruining our friendship because he doesnt feel the same or just keep it to myself and never finding out if he feels the same?any help would be really appreciated
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reader, bonym  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Welcome to the club of falling for someone you work with, I am a member of four clubs, falling for married men club, the gorgeous guys who are not interested club and the way to old, and ut of my league club as well as the one I first mentioned. On a serious note, only you know how your friendship stands with this guy, why not go out in a group (small one) and then see how you interact in the group then see what happens from there. Dont be so upfront abouyt it if you are worried about his response, but try to drop some subtle hints so he gets the message. Let me knwo how it goes. xXx
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reader, Nish +, writes (24 August 2006):
IM IN THE SAME PEDECTIMENT AND I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST CALL HIM UP ONE NIGHT AND ASK HIM IF HE HAS PLANS THAT NIGHT AND IF HE SAYS NO ASK IF HE WANTS TO HANG OUT AS FRIENDS,IF HE SAYS YES THEN HE PROBABY DONT FEEL THE SAME WAY AS YOU DO.....IF YOU HAD PLANS YOU WOULD BREAK THEM TO HAND OUT WITH HIM
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reader, guardian87  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 One thing you could do is hit on him maybe and see if u get a flirty response? or better yet, ask him out one night as friends and see if he gives u any hint as to his feelings about you.
Me, ive dated two of my closest friends in my life. One who i am still best friends with, and another who will insult me at any given oppertunity. you can only ruin the friendship after the relationship, never because of it, i say.
But if he says no to you, i can understand that it would be awkward between you two. but remember that things pass and i am sure you both would return to normal after some time if u do decide to tell him.
Best of luck in your decision!!!
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