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writes: my husband and i was deeply in love,he said he's not in love with me anymore what can i do to make him fall back in love with me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much, this realy does help!! thanks again
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reader, bonym +, writes (1 June 2006):
My dear as Hopeful rightly said, you cant make someone fall in love, neither can someone fall back in love with you. What you need to do is establish why your husband feels this way because this doesnt just happen over night, perhpas he was feeling a certain way for a long toime, but you need to communicate with one another to find out why he has changed his feelings towards you. I hope things canwork out for you. xXx
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (1 June 2006):
You can't make someone fall in love with you. However, you can try and understand what has happened that has taken you from a loving relationship to his doubts.
You have to talk to him about this and see why he feels this way - it could be something simple or something that together you can work on. It could be because the relationship may have become routine or there could be an underlying trust issue etc. It could be any number of reasons - so to find out what it is so you can work on it, I suggest you talk to him and find out what the relationship needs to survive.
There are no tricks or magic solutions, to solve this, it will just take work, compromise, understanding and commitment from you both.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): You could ask him why? Then maybe you can work from that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): Tell him you understand and live life like you never have before! Go out at night, whether it be to a freinds house or what, but go out! Stay out late and when he starts asking where you have been, tell him it is none of his business since he does not love you anymore! Smile and go about your business. Act like it is not bothering you no matter how hard it is! He will come around Trust me!
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