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writes:im missing my ex :(, the pain is so bad, i feel like i wont eva get a girl like her again because she was so different to everyone and so beautifuli feel like i gave her everything, and to my mistake i made her my world and cared so much about her, and she called me the perfect bfwe had so much in common and had such great chemistry, and she said she loved me so much and then next day she dumped me randomly out the blue last week for reasons i never found out, and was with another guy 2 days later and now they are happy. She says she still feels something strong for me but seems to want to just forget me, and wont meet up with me because she knows she would fall for me, and she says she will be over me in 2 weeks because of this new guyim hurting so much, and im starting to feel so lonely and its coming up to xmas, i feel like over dosing every morning, i want the pain to stop!!! i wake up in denial it happened and i cant stand the thought she hurt me :(it feels like i lost my best friend, girl friend and soul mate all in onei dont know why im waking up anymore, i wasnt happy when i was single before i met her and now it might destroy me :(im trying to take comfort by talking to friends and family, but they are getting very impatient with how slow im getting over it, and i dont how long it will be before they stop caring :(everything reminds me of her, i just feel like locking myself in a box as losing her just makes me wanna kil myself :(we were together around 3 months and people say thats not enough, but it felt like we had always known each other, i gave her space thinking it would help the relationship and i wasnt to clingy, infact she was more clingy and i just went with it because i cared :(
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reader, Sweet-mpls  +, writes (14 November 2009):
I'm going through the same thing u r going through... I'm trying to be positive and strong... I know that it is difficult going through the break up, it's not easy. If u ever want to just vent and cry I am here. Just email me. I won't judge u, I'm going through that too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): just beacause she seems happy with a new guy, doesnt mean shes over you or that shes even close to it. she may be trying to get over you, but another guy doesnt make the thoughts of the last one go away.
tell her how u feel before its too late :( chase after her to prove how much u care.
im so sorry, theres other lonely people out there too :/ ur not in the boat alone im tryng to say i guess.
keep trying with her, and if u think for sure she wont go bak 2 u, then at least u will know for sure.
and ur true friiends will listen to all of it, n be there for u.
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