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My husband has a sex addiction and I'm considering leaving him...Advice?

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Question - (16 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been with my husband for going on 13 years now and we have three kids ....But he has had a problem with what I think is a sex-addiction. He has had problems calling sex chat lines , signing for up for single sites and so on, but now I have found pictures of my sister as well as a family friend (female) with there heads cropped out and pasted on a porn star body.

the other stuff bothered me alot but and I have asked him to seek help but this really has me thinking that I might just want to pack up and leave.

Just looking for other people take on this ....

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2011):

Pictures of your sister and friends cut out and placed on porn star bodies!!?? - Yes, I think leave.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011):

Oh this awful. Im sorry :(...

Yes, he needs professional help. This is so not normal behavior and only him can help himself. If he's isolated, he'll see the damage his behavior has doen to those around him cause he'll be all alone. Yes, I would leave temporarily and go to a relative's house or friends house for comfort. Temporarily until you know what action he'll take on this and then plan accordingly. Im sure you must feel degraded and demeaned and so disrespected. You definitely dont deserve this.

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (16 April 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntHonestly, I suggest you leave. I'd leave. See, he could get help, and stop all this. But, I'm going to bet you're still going to be disgusted by it.

You'll see something that reminds you of it, and you'll just be disgusted that he did something like that, and let me tell you, that's a buzzkill when it comes to intimacy.

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