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writes: I just wanted to see if anyone can help me. I've been separated from my husband for 9 years and he's been with this other woman for 8 years. He has asked her to marry him a long time ago, but of course that has never happened, because he's still married to me.I've spoken to him Friday because it was his birthday and towards the end of the conversation, he told me that he still loves me and then he called me Sweety. I've always felt deep down inside that he's never stopped loving me, but this is the first time in a very long time has he said this to me.We talk on the phone about 3 or 4 times a week. His girlfriend has done a lot of wrong things to him. Three different times she's moved out on him and lived with 3 different men in 3 different apartments.I've told him if she should move out again that he would take her back, and he has told me that wasn't going to be a next time because once she leaves again there's no coming back. He's told me that she doesn't have a place to go and my husband isn't the type of person to put her on the streets.Five different times he has went to the court house and got the divorce papers and five different times those papers went in the trash. After 8 years you would figure that she would of moved out by now, just because he didn't marry her. He's told me that he wasn't going to marry her.What do you make of this? I've moved out of our home town 6 years ago and we now live 1000 miles away from one another and I have no plans on moveing back home. Please Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2005): if your ex didnt love you he would tell you he did, would he? but in the same breath if he wanted to be with you he would, wouldnt he? in my opinion you should talk with him if your both interested in geting back together if not let go of him and get a divorce. Goodluck x
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reader, pops +, writes (19 September 2005):
What are you waiting for? why aren't you filing for divorce? He is Gone. He will always love you, but he has chosen to live with someone else. Let him go. Get an uncontested divorce where you live, and no one need know when the marriage ended. And move on yourself. There is some guy out there who dreams of finding you.
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