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writes:I have been married now for almost 3 years. While out with my friends, one of my guy friends took advantage of me being a little drunk. He was all over me in the club and made me nervous. I tried to avoid him knowing he was also one of my husband's best friends. Then he knew I was upset with him and he apologized for making me uncomfortable and asked me to go for a walk, get some fresh air. He kept saying he was sorry for what he did when we went outside. We sat on a bench and then he put his hand down my pants and fingered me. I tried to scream but he kissed my while he fingered me, so I couldn't make much noise. After several minutes he stopped and went back inside the club. All I could do is cry thinking about how stupid I was for going outside with him. I trusted him for some reason, now I don't know if I should call the police, talk to my husband, or what I should do. I don't know if I can even prove what happened since my other friends may not take sides or even say I was drunk and wanted it. What should I do?
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reader, rateyourlove0727  +, writes (23 February 2009):
This is a very serious situation that i think you should not take for granted. If you are unsure of what to do first, try to seek legal advice, either on your own or with your husband. Either way, he should know! He must know... think positive about the situation and pray that everything will follow the way you want it to be. You are not the first one who experienced this, so definitely there will be answers that can help you. Stay true so that you will not feel heavy inside...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): tell ur hubby. and u have to let him no that he needs to listen to u, and trust u, and that u dont want to ruin anything, but that he deserves to no the truth. tell him what happen, and that ur friend dont want to take sides, and what the guy will say. so ur man will expect every kind of story, and not be all lost.and dont wait to long, cuz his friend might turn the tables on u.and tell ur man keep his friend as far as possible from u, cuz u dont want anything like that to happen again.
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