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writes: Hiya, well I've been mates with this boy for about 3 months. I'm starting to get really strong feelings for him, and would really like to have a proper relationship with him. The thing is, is that I'm not sure if he wants the same, and I'm not sure about how to tell him how I feel about him. He sometimes gives me hints that he likes me, but I don't want to make a fool of myself, if I have got it all wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, iluvztinks +, writes (27 July 2006):
It's better to be a fool for five minutes than a fool for life. In other words tell him! If he doesn't feel the same you've only made a fool of yourself for a while, and who knows something may grow from it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): that's the worst. the only thing you can really do in this situation is take the initiative if he's not. because what's even worse than rejection is sitting there not knowing. at least if you try and he rejects you, you know a solid answer. try innocent flirting with him at first. make little remarks to him that could be taken as flirtatious and see how he responds. if he goes along with it, keep it up and gradually make bolder flirtatious remarks. maybe eventually you guys will be taking the next step. but if he doesn't seem interested or doesn't go along with the flirtation, odds are he's not into it. so leave it at that. at least this way, you didn't put yourself out there completely by telling him you like him incase he doesn't feel the same. good luck!!
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reader, paul601 +, writes (27 July 2006):
Hi. I would say you should try and make some move, it's a bit old fashioned now that girls have to wait to be asked and although its nice, you gotta remember that us boys can get shy too and maybe he's hoping for you to make a step forward. Nothing ventured nothing gained and every day u leave it, u leave the path open for sum1 else, let me know what happens, good luck! x
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