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female
age
36-40,
*omBarbie
writes:My best friend (who is a guy) lives in a diffrent city than I do. We used to text and Skype regularly for hours at a time. But now he's not texting back and he's ignoring my Skype calls. The other day he texted me back, saying "sorry can't talk, I'm hanging out with my GF 3" and I was/am really bothered by that! For some reason it feels fishy. Like he could have just said that he can't text right now but no he brought his 'girlfriend' into the equation. I texted him again yesterday and all he said was "ya..." I wrote him back but no reply. 3 hours later I simply said 'whatever'. Now he's pissed at me and saying he hasn't been ignoring me for the past 6 months and I don't know what to say back. HELP!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 August 2012):
 yeah men with girlfriends tend to drop their female friends who they thought they could be more with.
when my ex hubby and i got serious and he told all his LD friends (female) that he was with a woman now 50% of then ended the friendship and he was CLUELESS why...
he has a GF now... you are just not important to him any more.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (31 August 2012):
 What exactly 'feels fishy' about it? That he has a girlfriend or that he hints at having 3?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 August 2012):
 Could it be that his GF isn't to happy with him chatting/texting another girl? And he is ignoring you to please her?
I think it's pretty common that people "drop off" the planet (as far as talking/hanging out with friends when they start a new relationship, some people are simply not that good at juggling both friendships and a brand new relationship. Once the relationship is a little more settled, they tend to get back in touch.
I would honestly back off and IF he is a friend he will call and talk to you, if he doesn't I guess he isn't that good of a friend.
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