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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years and we have not had many problems. However we had certain differences in our taste and outlook that did show badly sometimes but despite it all we made it work out and we are planning to get married next year. I've never thought about any other guy until this certain other guy came in to my life...I made friends with him randomly via mutual friend and over the due course we got to know each other very well. And both of us were surprised how similar we are in our tastes wishes and attitudes. the things i miss in my relationship, i found in him. We often text and he calls me almost every night. now i am so badly in love with him and i believe he loves me too. But being the honorable person he is, he has never expressed it directly but shown me ample times that he would have asked me out if i was available. And i feel this is the right person for me... And he too believes that this is one special connection that the2 of us have.But my guy does not know how deep my friendship is with this other guy and I feel as if i'm cheating. but i love him too... And my parents and his parents will be hurt if i break off with him. I can't let go of him either... But i'm not too sure i want to marry him next year cos suddenly this other guy seems so right for me.. Please tell me what i should do... I'm in a muddle..
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Ask yourself, what reasons do you have to stay with your current partner? Marriage is a very serious commitment, and if you are already having doubts, I believe you should think twice before going through with it. Could you be happy with your current partner for the rest of your life? If yes, then go through with it. But if you have doubts.... step back and think before you make the commitment.
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