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writes:Last year my 6 month old granddaughter got taken into foster care because of a suspected broken rib. Her dad was charged with assault and neglect and my daughter was charged with neglect though I am not sure what is going to happen with the both of them. I got a letter from Social Work to go and see them as it was about where would be best to place my granddaughter. So I went only to be told that she will not be able to live with me because of something my partner done in the past which was when he was working he touched a female on the leg and a scene was made. He was charged and put on a list..all this happened 7 years ago. Am heartbroken as I would like to take her and to help my daughter gain confidence in her again. Can anybody advise please? x
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 January 2013):
 Hi
I feel for you. I would ask for supervised access to start with if you want contact. Social Services would rather have a child with parents or family but if they consider the child will be at risk it is not going to happen.
Get some legal advice, see if the Law think you would have a chance, the guidelines are stringent though so it could be because of your partner you may not be considered.If you have a case you could qualify for Legal Aid.Its a long drawn out process and they will look at every tiny detail of your life if you are to adopt your grandchild.
Good Luck
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (28 January 2013):
 Try and see if you can get supervised access to your grandaughter if you can, at least that way you get to build a relationship with her. Over time, your daughter can arrange for supervised access too.
Social services are very particular about where a child gets placed, they want the child to be safe and cared for. Despite your partner touching someone leg a million years ago, they can not let any harm come to the child, it's their duty of care.
I do hope this helps, but i suggest doing some research of your own. Look into legislation around the care system, know your rights.
Good luck :)
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