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writes: Somthing my girlfriend said a few weeks back has bugged me so I need too know what anyone else thinks of it. We have been going out over 8 months and have had sex after both agreeing and we both love each other. However she said that 'if I ever finished with her' she would feel 'used and abused'. So basically I feel trapped etc. Has she a right to say that?She has also said in the past that 'if I finished with her' she would get her mum involved and speak to me and I know how much of a counsellor her mum thinks she is etc.please reply thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2006): thanks for your reply and yes sometimes i feel she is a bit young but you kno the first 5 months were the best months of my life i just hope over the next year and starting college makes her grow up a bit more cuz shes a loverly girl and definately my type...she really great just a few things annoy me about her as i have mentioned some too you ...
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (1 August 2006):
 Good Grief, what a drama queen! Used and abused?? Why? Did she not enjoy sex too? She should feel lucky that you respect her feelings and wishes all this time, making you wait for as long as 8 months without sex, fair enough as long as you BOTH are happy with the relationship in general - she can't just manipulate people like this, can she? As for running to mummy - well what a baby, she sounds so immature. Are you sure this thing is going to last anyway?? Tell her that relationships end for any number of reasons - her putting this kind of pressure on you is not on, and could well lead to the break-up she fears.. Be strong, and don't let her walk all over you! Good luck.
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reader, ickle-miss-sunshine +, writes (1 August 2006):
 hiya, well i think that your gf has no right to be that protected over you and she doesnt own you! she might just feel in love with you and shes making sure you won't let her go. if the time comes and you do want to finish her then it might sound tight but try and make her say or do summat 2 you that will hurt you so you hav an excuse to dump her n she cnt really blame you coz it was her fault. xxx
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