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My girlfriend's a virgin and we're ready to have sex, how can I make sure I don't hurt her?

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Question - (3 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive been going out with this girl for 4 months now and we have got really close. shes still a virgin but that doesnt bother me as I love her so much. She is saying that she is ready to have sex and so am I but she is worried about the pain, im scared if I will hurt her when the time comes to having sex, what can I do to make sure I dont hurt her?

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A male reader, ewm0706 United States +, writes (5 August 2009):

ewm0706 agony auntits sad but unlike these other guys ill tell ya staight up for a girl the first time is always a bitch k so make it quick and plan ahead make a second day of "fun" right away so she doesnt think it is going to hurt every time

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009):

Take it slow have loads of foreplay and have lube ready just incase. Also you will want to go on top as it will be easier for her and allows you to take it slow

Good luck x

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A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (3 August 2009):

Make sure she's very relaxed, lots of foreplay, might need extra lubrification.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

take it very slow, she should be relaxed, and if doesnt go as planned then keep a sense of humour and just laugh it off.

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