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male
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anonymous
writes:Hi.im 18 my girlfreinds 19, both virgins. ive known her for 4 years. weve been in a relationship for 1year.and i love her to bits, but still she refuses to have sex, whats worse she says she feels like letting me have sex with her at times, but she still wont let me have sexits driving me insane.i could end up in a mental institute if i have to wait any long.i dont know what to do.
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reader, EDOCO  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 Your disrespect and childish behavior is probably what is turning her off. Back off,respect her body, and wait until she's ready. If you can't abide by that simple rule, than you are not the guy she needs in her life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): You need to respect her decision and back off. If you really can't stand waiting, then break up with her and find someone else to sleep with.
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reader, megan1378 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 well if your trying to have sex with her DONT.... i dated a guy that i kinda liked but not really but he bugged me all the time and i refused... and it didnt last. then one guy i really liked bugged me and i wouldnt and it didnt last. well i found a guy that i thought would try so hard for it and he loved me and didnt try at all. i was a virgin till august. and it was my idea he waited and kept it to himself didnt try and it was driving me insane and finaly i just told him im ready and i knew he was and it happend so be patient and dont let her see that you want it and then shell prolly wonder why you seem like you dont want it and she will. and if she dont then dont sweat it
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