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anonymous
writes:hi people.my girlfriend went with a guy alone, without telling me n later she lied. this guy studied with her in her classes, n he is an intelligent guy with good sense of humor. he liked my girlfriend n proposed her too. he asked my girlfriend to hang out n my girlfriend just went with him. they were in d car whole time. but after i broke up, i checked that guy's cellphone, and my girlfriend had sent him a msg saying- "my boyfriend is my life, i love him a lot, and i cannot survive without my life. i want him back at any cost"my girlfriend is guilty of what she did. she told me, cos i use to fight a lot with her n never trusted her completely, that drew her away from me. n now shes asking for another chance n she says she'll do wat i want.please help !!
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reader, manonmoon +, writes (9 May 2011):
DO NOT ... Its OK to cross check your gf.. no big deal...once the bridge of trust is broken even if you get back together it will always haunt you.. forget it and move on...
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reader, sofirex  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 hii, did she do anything with the guy in his car? i hate cheating and lying so am not in her side, but i do believe that everyoneee deserves a second and a third chance.. we are people and we do mistakes nobody is perfect. i say give her the chance if she really send that text then i understand her, and trust me i wouldn't want to loose my "life" either.. also the fact that you asked for help means that you do care about her, so come on make love people :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe guy she was with, he called me up after our break up, he said that she did a mistake, but you need to forgive her because she loves you a lot. next day he came to see me, n showed me that msg.
i use to argue with her because she always made mistakes, she knows that. every time she asked sorry n i forgave her. but those mistakes were forgivable, unlike ds one, when she went out with a guy without my knowledge. she still wants me because she knows how much i love her.
i just want to know, whether i should forgive her ds time or no. is this act, going out with a guy who had bad intentions, can be excused?? i need advice cos shes my first love, n i don want to regret on any of my decision later. please help me people !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): Tell her you love her.. to her face ...and mean it. See what she says and how she reacts., I wish you all the luck and love in the world. XXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): If you want your gf back, you'd say yes. But checking other peoples cell phones is highly disrespectful and it will push girls away. Don't check cell phones.
I'd say give her another chance.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 You broke into the guy's cellphone??
You make me nervous. You argued with your girlfriend the whole time, and used to fight with her, and then broke up with her after she was alone with another guy (which I agree - she shouldn't have done that).
Honestly, if you treated her the way you say you treated her, you should be on your knees asking her to come back to you. You mistreated her when you were with her. Doesn't make what she did right, but you need to quit sabotaging your relationships. And STOP BREAKING INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S CELL PHONES!
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