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41-50,
anonymous
writes:we been together over a year everything was great no fights our kids got along. all up to this past valentine day she went silent not responding to text calls backed out of dates. come to find out she had a side effect from one of her meds which is severe depression and told me she needed a break to fix herself said she needed to fix herself then fix us? she told several people we together but wont tell me anything. I ask if we can talk she had surgery to fix one of the problems of the meds. I just want to know if anybody can answer why wont she just end the relationship cause clearly she is a lot better then she puts off goin out drinking which she never has. and only thing I get when I ask if we can chat I get when we do talk it will be when kids aren't around. what should I do forget her move on or what?
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reader, Serpico +, writes (18 April 2016):
Go into total radio silence with her for the next three weeks, and I mean total. No calls, texts, letters, emails, or waves from the car as you drive by.
At the end of that three weeks, trust me you will know if you should be together or not.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 April 2016):
 Why don't YOU just break it off yourself? A relationship that clearly isn't working any more can be ended by either of you.
If she needs to work on herself, then let her. I would just let her know that there is no guarantee that you will still be single when she is done.
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