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writes:My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months i'm 14 and so is she. it seems to me like she would do more for her bestfriend then me as it looks, and she won't ever go to partys or hang out with my friends with me. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pink_Fairy234 +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Believe it or not, girls are like that. They go out with a guy but they still need to hang around with girls to talk to. Many people talk to guys about one thing and girls about another. That's probably what it is. But, why don't you suggest having a couple of nights every week together. You could watch movies go on the computer even do homework if youre really behind. All I can say is follow your heart. If you think she doesn't hang out with you because she doesn't love you anymore, maybe it's time to go your separate ways. Message me to let me know whats happening.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Believe it or not your girlfriend is behaving in a very mature way. So many girls drop their friends when they get a boyfriend, especially at your age, so by keeping them close by she's doing a good thing. Maybe she feels uncomfortable with your friends because she doesn't know them very well. Encourage your friends to always say hello and smile when they see her and hopefully she'll start to feel a little more confident with them. As for you try to understand that best friends last longer than boyfriends so she has every right to keep her best friend close. It doesn't mean she likes you any less.
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