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writes: This is a short question but recently my girlfriend is acting a little different...Since leaving school and completing her exams she has started to go out with her mates a bit more....She does not act her normal self around me and doesn't show as much affection however its only a slight difference...Compared to what she used too....She doesn't seem to be wanting to see me as much or is not as obsessive...She also before i go to her house, texts me and says somthing along the lines off 'Ignore my clothes i look like a tramp....' and i get there and she looks fine..But when someone else comes around or is supposed to be she says 'Omg i have to go and get changed now cuz so and so is coming round' ...We have been going out over 7 months now and im just wandering if she has calmed down a bit ? She lost her grandad 7 months ago and is still upset about it watching him die and has on and off days should i just sympathise and see if she gets back to normal? am i being paranoid ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): Understand that she is still learning about who she is and what she wants in life.
I have found that marriages after a certain age have a far better chance of surviving then compared to those who marry before this age. The magic age is roughly 24-27.
She will change and grow emotionally within the next 6 to 8 years.
I think be happy with what you have; be caught up in being young and alive. This doesn't mean be irresponsible and ignore what you want in a relationship.
She doesn't have a normal yet and I am expecting your sense of the word normal means more what you want and not really of who she is in the process of becoming.
And the affection is slight. And who wants an obsessive girlfriend? Obsessive isn't healthy. Loving and affectionate is.
You may be a tad paranoid and selfishly motivated.
It doesn't really sound bad.
You know what you like and you need to decide if this slight change will be ongoing and more pronounced over time and if you will be okay with this change.
I say stick it out and see what goes on. Like her and be with her.
*hugs*
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