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My girlfriend says she wants to take things slow, seems like she's stressed out, any thoughts?

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Question - (25 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

dear cupid

me and my girlfriend just broken up and well she says that it was too soon to start going out, and wut ever, and now she tells me that we need to be friends and take it slow, but check this out we both still wana have a relationship but the problem with her is she is going to college, working, and trying to maintain a relationship and then when gets stressed out she tells me that she is not ready for a realtionship.

Last night we go to the clubs with some friends and she wasn't drinking at all and she didn't want to dance with anyone else but me and girls wanted for me to dance but i said no i have a girl friend, and then later on that night i dropped off every one and she was the last person that i dropped off and she gave me a hug and a kiss then she bit me, so is there a way that we can work this out and what can she do when she is stressed out, please let me know asap

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntTrying to get into college is the most stressful time in your life. The best thing you can do is try to be considerate of that. If she's stressed with all the study etc why not make her a nice dinner or run her a hot bath or give her a relaxing massage or something? These are all little gestures that will make her happy and keep her close to you so that when she is less stressed it's only you she wants to be with.

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