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writes:my girlfriend broke up with me 20 months ago after 28 years together. our friends say that our relationship was better and happier than any they have been around. but she said that the last 5 years that she was not happy and she changed. she had feelings for others and wanted to pursue them. she is still living in our house that we both own. I have asked her to move out but she will not. I feel that I did not change or break up the relationship and I want to buy the house from her. she keeps wanting to do things with me. she even scheduled 2 vacations with me and then she is taking 1 week vacation with her new friend. she stays at this new friends house sometimes 2 weeks of the month. this new friend is an employee of hers. what am I suppose to do. I do not want to give up on 28 years but it drives me crazy when I know the she is with her. sometimes she says that she is going crazy and she is not happy.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (28 June 2007):
In any, and all, gender relationships There will always be the possibility of break-ups. I would wonder what your respective ages are. Not that it really matters, When the ass on the other side of the fence looks greener. Some of us go for it. It's just our humanness under the control of our genitals, not the organ above our shoulders. Lots of bisexual relationships work out,on a Time-Share bases,even if both of the parties are not swingers. You say you have had 28, wonderful years together, and you don't want to lose your gf. Why don't you all get together and see if you can make that togetherness a loving Time-Sharing-Relationship. As I see it a Half-Loaf-Relationship is better than none at all. Perhaps,It's also time that You spread your sexual wings and share that love you have to give with others. In Hetro. or Homo. relationships we all tend to become bored with our ongoing, Same-O, Same-O sexuality. And even though the sex doesn't change much in a new affair, it's a new body and a new mind. It looks as if you gf is already Time-Sharing with her new gf, So why not let a three-some into you Sexuality. Might be the best way to fly at this time, besides the newness of the other gf may soon fade. And her boss may look for greener pastures. As for the house. My advice is that it's joint property, And she has the right to come and go as she pleases. And if you force her out, You will be rejecting the love that she feels for you, And I see lots of that in what's going on in your relationship these days. DON"T DO THAT!, Kick Her Out, and say that you love her.
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