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36-40,
*obe daka
writes:Hi,I'm kind of confused my girlfriend just sms ed me that she's is not going to open her legs for me. Due to the fact that I saw her with a man walking down the street so I stop gave her a lift to her home,to cut the story short at night before sleep I tried to ask her who was that guy and where was she coming from she told me she was coming from a friend so she accused me of many things but we talked but and of our talk she sayed I'm not go to open her legs for me again.I'm confused I don't need to leave her help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (3 January 2013):
 She's out! Drop her and cut all contact. End of.
More likely something is going on. She accused you of many things to take the attention off of her.
Her loss.
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reader, Tortured Soul  +, writes (3 January 2013):
You have every right to ask her who the man was. Her response was very negative because she has felt guilty of something and by you seeing them together you have ruined a valuable moment. Shes using sex to contorl you, and holding sex back from you helped her by making you regret questioning her behavior. Communication is valuable at this point, but remember stand firm on you have a say on things. If it was me I would have dumped her for pulling non ense on me .
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reader, Warm-Inspire +, writes (3 January 2013):
 Did you confront her or was it just a curious question?
If you confronted her then her reaction could be one of two things.
1. You jumped down her throat, she got insulted about something that might of been completely innocent, stopping sex because she is hurt by the accusation.
2. Her defense mechanism kicked in, taking something from you in hopes of you dropping the subject.
If it was just a general question then i don't know who would react to it to this extreme.
I'd suggest approaching the subject in the most delicate way you can, if she still resorts to banning sex after trying to reason (not argue) then i'd say something is amiss.
Good luck
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