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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 May 2010):
If she only rings you when she wants something, then it's time to call it a day. Relationships are a two way thing. You don't need to be treated this way, and you shouldn't be treated this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): If you feel your girlfriend is only in contact with you to get something from you, you need to ask yourself a few questions about the relationship. Do you feel like you are being used, or is it just a particularly stressful time for her where she needs your help with things?
My advice would be to talk to her gently about it. Tell her how you feel and see what she has to say. Hopefully she'll give you the reassurance about the relationship that you may be looking for, and if not at least you will know where you stand with her.
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