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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So David and I are coworkers at this restaurant. Since my schedule changed to one that is similar to his, we have been getting kinda close since last summer. I drive him home, we flirt nonstop, make out, and i love being around him. Last August, he asked me to be his GF. this is my first relationship with any guy.. I told him i would have to think about it. Though I knew I liked him so much, I didn't know how to say yes.. I was so shaken up! ..I was 19 at the time. Though we are still fine, we were friends on myspace for a week (he requested me) and then he deleted me. I was like, wtf? ...Now I see he is friends with one other female coworker and they flirt a lot too.. I think that in all this time, I fell in love with him. I have NO IDEA what to do now.. He hasn't suggested that we hang out outside of work (we went out last Fall to the park..) and he doesn't really text me anymore. (He used to, like daily.) I don't want to suggest that we go out and hang outside of work again. I feel like I already did. The thing is, it seems like at work we are all over each other. He calls me baby, holds my hand, and he always makes sure that I have what I need and he goes out of his way to talk to me.. I don't get it. I am so in love with him. I really can't ever stop thinking about him. He is all I want. What do i do now? (BTW.. I am shy and i turn into mush around him!) Any advice is SO appreciated! Thank you!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (26 May 2010):
 He asked you out, you rejected him, he moved on. He is still nice, but decided not to pursue it further. He was clear with his intentions early on, now you're just friends (unless you still make out). You have two choices that I can see, tell him you'd like to go out some time or just let yourself be friends with him. I'd lean toward the latter myself because he does sound like a bit of a player, but I'm not in your shoes either.
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