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writes:hey Agony Aunt'sNeed your help sadlyi am 15 and so is my girlfriend and we have been going out for about a year now and she is really only in to hugging and kissing but when we were in the cinema one day i got an erection while i was kissing her and she noticed it and looked at me i never noticed untill i looked down but she just sort of lent back in her seat and watched the rest of the movie.Here's the weird part about 20 mins away from the end i felt something on my penis and when i looked down she had her hand down my trousers and was giving me a handjob. i'm really embarresed by this and i don't want to have sex with her because we're both underage what should i do :(:(:(thanks for any help
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (16 August 2008):
 She probably thought that you'd like it. I'm not saying you should like it, but don't hold it against her or anything because she might feel a bit hurt. Just tell her in a caring way that you want to wait a bit before you start getting more physical. You never know - she might feel the same, perhaps she felt that after a year that you'd get bored if she didn't give you much action.
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Hi babes,Well maybe she thought you wanted to go a bit futhur,a bit of fore play doesn't always lead into sex,but its up to you if you want to or not, if you don't want to just explain to her? I'm sure if you both love each other, then you can talk to each other explain how you both feel,don't throw a year away just because you couldnt talk to her about her touching you in places,all girls get a bit overforwards in signals boys give them,im sure she will understand, if you talk to her,Takeecareeee,Hope all goes well.Tiierney''Hutsonn x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): The only thing you have to do is tell her that you are uncomfortable with having sexual contact at this time. She should understand. I've been in a few situations like that before where a girl was getting touchy-feely or giving me hints to that sort of thing. It's bad when it's a friend and even harder when it's your girlfriend but if she has feelings for you then she should understand. Make sure she knows that you are not uncomfortable with her looks or her body. Tell her that you would rather wait until you are older, more mature, and ready to handle something this complicated. Don't worry, this shouldn't be a hard situation to handle. Not saying anything would actually create more problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): tell her you want to slow things down......tell her that you want to wait till you are both of age! and don't be afraid of making her mad because if she really cares about you then she will respect your disision.
good luck!!
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 you two need to have a talk about what you are and are not ready to do! tell her flat out you aren't ready! she might have done it because she wants it, or she might have done it because she thought you wanted it.
and keep it out of public areas! i had a friend who worked for the theaters, and the poor guy kept complaining about how many condoms he found in the back rows haha!
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