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writes:I am in a relationship with this gorgeous and nice girl for the last two years and she happens to be two younger than me . My problem is my girlfriend suspects me of cheating on her that's not the case though… maybe she 's getting wrong idea when I call her girlfriends bloody hotttt in front of her and her friends like this compliment . But I get the feelings it might get her thinking that I might be doing this to other girls as well behind her back? Besides, she thinks I am street-smart and can make a solid cover for my misdeeds. I am giving away more than 100% to this relationship. I am from rich family whereas she's from middle class - I have also sponsored her younger brother further studies in US and can still do anything for her but she can't get rid of her sick middle class mentality of suspecting me for no reason...don't guys think she needs to get a life and grow up now? What I need to do get her rid of this habit of suspecting me for no reason ? Or calling her friends her hottt also constitutes cheating ? Oh yeah, every once in a while, she calls me too proud in my head, I don't know for what? Any suggestions from you people would be appreciated ! Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Love kisses of rainbows  +, writes (6 October 2011):
ok first just the way you were talking you sound like an over achiever Why did you have to say taht you are rich and she is middle class?That was completly unnessasry.You were rubbing it in whether that was intentional or not, that is how it comes off i may be young but i have been through all this rubbish amd i see both sides. Let us start with you first off - if she is younger than you then you need to recognize that by that i mean please stop treating her like she your age. Because she is not, and does she have a history of being cheated on? And if you know, or even think that the you saying that stuff to her friends might upset her. Or give her those ideas.Then STOP doing all that.All you can do is show her that you love her. If you do i just assumed you do?But anyway show her you love her. And how much you love.Stop flirting or saying stuff like her friends are "bloody hot" keep telling her you dont and will never do that to her and then show her. This will take time. So just dont give up on her now.Let's get to her yeah. she needs to chill but she only does it because she is afraid of being hurt and losing you.And that is completly understandable. Especially if she is emotionally attached to you. Then that is a big deal for her.If she truly loves you and is not just saying it? This is all i can tell you. The rest is up to you (you can lead the horse to the water but you can't make it drink ) :) good luck i wish you the best
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reader, dannielab  +, writes (6 October 2011):
 You call her friends bloody hot in front of her (which is very disrespectful towards her), I can't imagine what this girl thinks you do behind her back if you openly call her friends hot.You are the one who needs to grow up. Apologizing to her for behaving that way would be a good start.
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