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writes: hello, my problem is i have a really nice girllfriend whos a bit older than me, and she gets a lot of attention from other blokes and it gets me kinda jelous/angry. we both go to school and i get innapropriate comments, and so does she, even though they know we both go out. i get really angry an hit out at stuff such as the wall and get upset. i don't know wether i should tell her how i feel about this or whether to just not tell her so she doesn't think i'm a jelous freak. Reply to this Question
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reader, Evo  +, writes (24 January 2007):
HAHAHA I've been there man. I usto date a hot blond girls with HUGE tits. She was catching ALOT of eyes every where we went. I was EXTREMELY jealous all the time. But hey she cheated on me after a year and a half then i've been single for 2 years and now have a smokin hot g/f. Shes getting a lot of attention but if she gives back to that attention then i would get worried. but all you gotta do is make the girl always wonder about you. cause when girls see your getting too jealous they kinda know they got you whipped. But trust me man its normal. You just gotta clear you mind, hit the gym and just think positive. Check out this book called "The Mack Within" its a book written by a pimp. If any one knows on how to get women or keep women interested in you it should be a pimp.
(I am not a player by the way) I've been there with the girl i am with now. I got her into a club n whatever 5 mins in she was dancing with her friend and guys were all over her grinding and shit. I got jealous like hell. I just went up to her looked her in the eyes with the hellish look of hatred and anger and just walked away. Obviously she came running back to me. I told her "hey i thought you wanted to come here to dance with me not a bunch of freakin other guys? who do you think you are? how would you feel if i was dancing with other girls?" she said "I would kill you if you were dancing with other girls" so yeah i pointed that out and said "well then WTF?!"
yeah.. i'm telling you man dont injure your self by punching shit i usto do that. enhance your self push some weights just work out and get out your testosterone trust me.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 If you want her to know how you're feeling make it into a joke. Say lightheartedly "God, it's so hard for me what with all these guys being in love with you. Sucks to have such a hot, amazing girlfriend hm?" but the truth is that you are being jealous and you have no reason to be. Is she going out with any of these losers? No. You're the winner. It's their prerogative to be jealous!
CD
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