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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been merely a "booty call" for someone for more than a year. As hard as it is to think of myself as just ass, I was okay with it, because I thought I merely wanted the same from him! Now I've developed feelings for him. Is there any way that I can let him know how I feel, change his view of me just being a hookup. I mean I've hooked up with him for more than a year and never felt the need to be more than friends with benefits for the span of a year. There must be something I can do to not like him anymore and just continue with the relationship we have. What's really bothering me is have I liked him all along and what if he is a person I could spend the rest of my life with. And why on earth do I like him now after a year! I'm just so lost! HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): I know what your feeling girl, i was in the same nearly two years ago! I decided to tell mine how i felt and now i'm living with him but it's had it's prices, so please think carefully as you mite not be the only one he calls upon, and there is nothing saying it will be just you and him! a yr and a half on and I'm still fighting off other girls and being played, but i love him to much to leave. Please take your time and think long and hard!
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