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41-50,
*roggie
writes:I have a concern that I would like some advice with. I have been with my Girlfriend who is 28 for just a little over two years now. We planned to have a baby and have succeeded. She is now about 9 weeks pregnant and we have also found out that we are going to be having twins. We are both happy with this.. Maybe a bit overwhelmed with the twins news as this is our first time but none the less happy. Lately we haven't had sex and she doesn't seem to want to. Also she seems not to be cuddly or even want to be touched. Just wondering whats going on and what i can do about it. When i ask she just says she doesn't feel like it. I am wondering if this is because of her hormonal changes or something else. Please help me out with some advice. As per being a male i cant even possibly understand what her body is going through.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, groggie +, writes (10 June 2010):
groggie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you girls or your help.
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reader, ineedhelp2010  +, writes (10 June 2010):
I can definately help you with this one. I just had twins, and they are now 4 months old. Consider yourself lucky that you found out this soon about the twin part! I didnt find out untill i was already 5 months pregnant! But i will tell you in the beginning i was absolutely miserable! But the further along i got, the higher my sex drive got! Trust me, it will get better!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Oh yeah. It's total hormones. In the first trimester of pregnancy, hormones are WAY out of whack, she's sick and out of sorts. Her breasts may be too tender to be touched, and she may be reacting violently to smells/tastes. She might be feeling terribly unattractive and thinking that once you see her pregnant naked body, that you'll run for the hills.Give her time...usually in the second trimester, that passes. Just hang in there. You're also right, she may be feeling overwhelmed. The thought of having twins on the first go might be sending terror down her spine. The key for you is PATIENCE and kindness and gentleness - physically and emotionally. Step up and help her with things you normally don't help her with. She'll come around for you! Hormones are absolutely nutty when a girl's pregnant! She still loves you!
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