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male
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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I been together for 10 months we have our up and we have our downs. Lately I been putting alot of thought into one particular thing within' our relationship which has been worrying me. Making a baby... Why it's a problem? "sigh" We have sex 3-4 time a day within' those 3-4 times 2-5 rounds each time a day. Every time we have sex I cum inside her (don't use condoms), last week Saturday we had sex 2 rounds but after we came out the bath (we don't live together, my mother-in-law allows me to sleep over for a week every other week) and was about to go sleep she said she doesn't think we should have sex so often I said ok! But yet still I had a look on my face which she noticed and knew something was wrong. She asked me what was wrong? I shook my head and said nothing; She asked again and I did the same thing then I told her why is it every time within' 8 months we been having sex and I cum in you your not pregnant is it me? I then said I'll go see the doctor find out if something is wrong. After about 5min. of silence she said she does think it's me and started to cry. She told me 2 of her ex-boyfriends tried also and nothing happened she knew for 2years. Then she cried like hell... She told me to finish with her but I cannot I am in love with her way too much. I explained to her how much I love her and why I cannot end it she understood after an entire 30mins of proving me wrong that I cannot live with out kids cause I love kids. Now we are about to see the doctor to find out why she cannot have kids and what's the problem... We are both 20 years old and put alot of thought into this baby subject but unfortunately there is no baby. I know the responsibilities cause I am an uncle of 4 kids from my sisters. Can someone share some other means advice on what I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Unless you plan to "put a ring on it," I don't think you should be worrying about having a baby with her.
I'd give it another year or two and see where things go.
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