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writes: Hi need some help guys! I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and we have an amazing relationship and are so in love, well at least I still am. About two weeks ago she went on a sports activity week and things were fine. But when she got back, she says that she prefers herself around friends and in a group, and is bored of just me!!! I still tell her i Love her and we are still talking but she is not saying 'I love you' or wanting to kiss or anything like that. I am so confused and hurt, because two weeks ago everything was fine and now it could be over!!! I trust my girlfriend completely, but there were loads of boys on the trip and now a few text her and she can't stop mentioning them. What can i do and what is your advice? Thanks so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): She is seeing or met someone else whilst away the tell tale signs are very clear. Move on as I think she has.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Maybe shes seeing the possiblities and the exicitement of not have attachments and just wants a little space to try them. Doesn't mean she wants to cheat on you just she doesn't want feel tied down. Like she as to spend all her time weith you, maybe she just wants a bit of varity.Give her a bit of space to breathe and all also try to spice up your relationship become a little unpredictable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): Join her activities. Try to get to know her friends. Start your own, include her in yours. Keywords: friends, group, sports
And most likely it's not a sudden thing. She probably have these thoughts/feelings for awhile now. It's just that now she has something to back up what she really wants.
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