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writes: My girlfriend has acted quite differently lately. The other day she said that I couldn't go round her house because I had been there a lot recently and she said we shall leave it tonight. I suggested that she come round mine, but she said she could not get down, then I said catch the bus like I do to go to hers sometimes and she said that she couldn't be bothered, and that she didn't want to walk up the hill to mine.She also called my sister 'Pathetic' to me because I would not lend her, my sisters DVD. She maybe stressed but could this be a sign of anything...?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Farris  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Yeah, she just sounds stressed out to me. Give her a little bit of time and space to herself, and see how it plays out. If her attitude towards you doesn't clear up, or she never apologises for this behaviour then you should sit her down and ask her what's going on.
Everybody need some alone time sometimes, but let her know that you're there for her and you care very much.
Good luck, and best wishes.
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reader, StellaBaby83  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Well, maybe she is stressed a little, whats going on in her life? I know, that when I'm in a relationship I really value my 'own' time. Everyone needs time on their own, its healthy to enjoy your own company and think and ponder and do things that interest you. Maybe she just needs some time out to mull things over and if you just let her take the time she needs I'm sure she'll let you know and probably explain why she was acting like that and let you know whats going on. Calling your sister 'pathetic' is a bit harsh but she could have been expressing her fustration at things at the moment, not necassarily about not being able to lend the DVD's but often its something small and insignificate that makes a bubble burst.
Good luck and hope you get to the bottom of this :)
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