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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My GF has a REALLY high sex drive i mean whenever night or day she is ALWAYS up for it. We have sex everyday even sometimes twice a day. She's had loads of one night stands. 15 guys that she can remember (maybe more) and she's 19yrs. she told me sex to her is just something that gives her pleasure and having sex with a random guy is no big deal.Once she said she slept with a guy she'd only known for an hour. She's made loads of remarks like this and its giving me the impression she is really "Easy to bed".As much as i love the sex we have together, its got me thinking when were not together for like 3 weeks (during holidays from uni) how does she cope with no sex! Do u reckon she has random flings as "sex is no big deal" whenever she's feeling horny. Im not a suspicious or insecure person and i have NEVER though this about any other girl i've been out with but this girl just gives the impression she's gonna end up cheating. What are your opinions? Please be honest i'd rather deal with it now than get hurt in the future.Thanks
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reader, John_Yizzy +, writes (23 June 2010):
Wow you guys don't have that much of a "high sex drive". My girlfriend's worse about 6 times a day on average. But for the part where she cheats that depends if she can cope without you or how much she loves you.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
If she loves you I'm sure she wouldn't cheat. After all she can always go solo if she needs pleasure that badly.
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reader, Anonymousloll +, writes (20 January 2007):
Hmmm thats tricky, my boyfriend and I both have very high sex drives, we've been together for a year and we still have sex twice a day sometimes, we both really like sex, but the difference is this is both of our first relationships. I worried about that too knowing my boyfriend loved sex, but the thing is if she is an unfaithful person she will cheat, you cant stop her and if she is then get rid of her. But the thing you have to ask is if u trust her, just because she likes sex doesnt mean she'd cheat especially not if she cares for you. Try talking to her about it, explain you're not accusing her but you've never met a girl with as high a sex drive as her and it puzzles you. Like i said tho if she is a cheater, lose her, you can do better. Good Luck! x
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