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writes: I'm a 16 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. This is my first relationship, my first love that I've ever had. But the problem is, she won't spend time with me at school. She tells me that she doesn't want her cousin (who goes to the same school) to know about us, who'll tell her parents. Just a few weeks ago, I told her cousin and I thought things were solved. But it wasn't, she is still not spending time with me. Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2005): Maybe she doesn't want everyone in school knowing about ur relationship because high school is a ever running rumorr mill...maybe she's scared that rumorrs will start and that will spoil ur relationship with each other...talk to her and ask her why if ur mind still isn't at rest!
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reader, Becci +, writes (28 November 2005):
 Hey hun,
My name is Becci and I'm 19 years old and I went through the same thing that you did with a boyfriend I had in high school.
I think you should really talk to this girl when you are both alone together one night. Tell her how you are feeling about this situation and ask her why she doesn't want her family to know. Explain that you love her and want to be with her and that all you want is to show her of to you're school friends because you are so proud of her. Then see what she says...
Although I must add that maybe she has a good reason for not wanting her family to find out, maybe her parents are very strict about her having a boyfriend and she is trying to protect your relationship by keeping it a secret. This is also something to concider. The only thing you can do is to talk to your girlfriend like a responsable young adult and make sure she knows how much you love her. I hope this helps you. All the best Becci x
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