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writes: Got quite weird question, im 23 y.o and have stable relationship at the moment, thing is that i never had sex without condom before.. and my GF hates them, and want's to have sex without condom ofc. Since i was always using condom due to only had one-night-stands so far.. i have no idea where should i cum :/ before i was cuming into condom whatever i was doing, but now im so confused, should i do it inside? or depending on position stomach/back etc? or what when recieving oral? .. so lost :(
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (19 February 2007):
You can cum on her stomich, her back, or her boobs... that would be the most common places. It'll feel better in her mouth if she lets you. ;)
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (19 February 2007):
First off, do the two of you have a backup method? And, are the two of you monogamous? B/c STD's are the pits if you get one!! Herpes, Chlamydia, gonorrhea....no I haven't had any, but I did work for a gynecologist. And, their awful. What is her reason for you not to wear a condom? That's responsible on your part. You have to do what is right for you in the long run, not just "in the moment". And, let's not forget pregnancy.....are you ready for that?
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (19 February 2007):
This is not an awkward question at all!
The first question I will as YOU...Is she on the shot, the pill, or the norplant implant? An IUD? What form of birth control, other than condoms are you using? Ejaculating inside of her with no form of birthcontrol besides is probably not a great idea if you don't want to risk pregnancy. :) Even using the pull-out method, it fails more than it works. Have her start the pill/shot/norplant or another form of contraceptives, and wait a full month or month and a half to allow her to be fully (or around 98-99.8 percent) protected from pregnancy.
If she's already on birthcontrol, the place to ejaculate is her or your own choice. You could ejaculate while in her vagina, you could ejaculate into her mouth during oral sex, etc. Also, pulling out of her mouth or vagina, or even her booty (and then removing the condom, which I truly recommend you use for anal sex!), and ejaculate on her belly, her face, her chest, back, etc. Make sure she's okay with this. There are a lot of options, but all should be discussed with her.
Make sure there's birthcontrol involved, and you both agree on what is right for the both of you. :) Good luck!
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