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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in a very happy relationship were very much in love and having a great time with each other. were both 20 and this is my first and her 3rd serious relationship. Recently we have taken each others virginity and are making love, which was fun but awkward at first however now it very pleasurable for both of us. This all sounds awesome and for the most part it is, however despite enjoying it my gf doesnt seem to have much of a sex drive ive always though young couples were supposed to want to be all over each other all the time and i would love that however despite us always kissing and hugging, we only make love once every 1-2 weeks is this weird? i feel like im doing something wrong or shes losing her attraction for me, any ideas?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 September 2008):
Well if you only just took eachother's virginity then I would say this is the first serious relationship either of you have had.
However if she has has had boyfriends where no sex was involved then she may just be in a pattern of not having sex. She's used to not feeling sexy or wanting it, she doesn't look for sexual attraction in a partner automatically because it hasn't bee important till now.
It's up to you to make her feel sexy, get her in the mood, snog her face off for no reason, and open her up so she does think about it more.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): I'm about your age and I have sex with my bf multiple times a week but I am unlike most woman. Your gf is pretty normal. Girls lack testosterone which is the key component in a high sex drive. But there are things you can do to help.
Maybe you can try boosting her confidence. I know when my bf tells me I look beautiful/sexy/ or that I turn him on I am more motivated to make love to him. You have to butter her up! Also, try keeping communication good between you two so you can talk to eachother about how to improve your sex life or if something is bothering you.
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