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*cdamnrite
writes:Hey guys,theres this girl i'm really in love with, and we've been together for 6 months or so...Problem 1/ Most of the time, everything is perfect, but my family decided to take a vacation in the states for 7 days,when i first told her about this everything seemed fine, but the second day before i left, things started getting weird.she would be fine the whole day while we hung out, but before i leave, she wouldnt say by, look at me, or even let me touch her!!! : Sand now im in the states, (3 hour time difference) i would talk to her as much as i can, and even stay up, just to talk to her and webcam with her...i did that yesterday and everything was fine, but when i tried to go online today, apperently i made her wait too long, and now shes ignoring me!!!Problem 2/ When i used to first go out with her, we would flirt a lot and she would pretend to be mad at some small things (i knew it was pretend, cause she would smile while doing it), but then after a while, it got real!!! She gets mad for simple things and i dont know what to do!!around 3-5 months, it got better, but once in a while, she would still get mad at seemingly dumb (to me) things!!!what should i do!?!
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reader, jcdamnrite +, writes (11 August 2010):
jcdamnrite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionohhh yea
btw
i stay with her on the web cam until 4 am in the morning (for me)!!!
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reader, jcdamnrite +, writes (11 August 2010):
jcdamnrite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright
thanks!!!
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (10 August 2010):
 I think she really loves you, but don't know how to say it. She seems to love talking with you, but when she has to say good bye, it hurts. Plus, you are not down the street where she can have easy access to you.
Her mind could also be playing games with her. You are over there,and maybe girls are checking you out, and that's why you have to get of the webcam, blah, blah, blah.
Do not get upset with her. This is a learning experience for you...it's called "patience". Also be glad that she is upset that you are so far away. She could not care, and that would suck even more...true?
I would be proud actually... That I could ruffle her mood just bye saying good night.
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reader, jcdamnrite +, writes (10 August 2010):
jcdamnrite is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni was talking and webcamming with her on skype today, and its 1 o clock here, and i have to get up really early tomorrow, when i said bye, she didnt reply, and signed off after i told her that i loved her and missed her!
what am i doing wrong?!?
and how can i fix it?!
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reader, jcdamnrite +, writes (10 August 2010):
jcdamnrite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwill this stop over time?
everytime i ask whats wrong, she tells me that its nothing : S
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (10 August 2010):
Then my friend, she may just be testing you to see how much you care.
Please talk to her about it. Ask her why she does it, and listen to what she says.
You may learn alot.
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reader, jcdamnrite +, writes (9 August 2010):
jcdamnrite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not always the same time as her period,
it sometimes gets worse during her period
sometimes it gets better...
i never say anything offensive things to her, at all!!!
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (9 August 2010):
Just a question?? These mood swings would not be happening around the same time as her period would they? If you know she has her period that is.
Keep in mind this is not the only cause..Some women's mood are affected by their periods, and sometimes they don't know it's happening themselves. Especially at a young age.
Also, pay attention to the things you say, and how she reacts. To you they may seem like nothing, just kidding, and so on. However, to her it could be offensive.
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