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writes: My boyfriend for a year really wants me to give him head, but I get really nervous when it comes to about that time. I haven't ever done it before and I haven't yet. I don't want to make it awkward. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, GettingHelp +, writes (9 August 2010):
First of all DO NOT do anything you don't feel 100% comfortable with.
N.B. **** Secondly, STDs can be transferred by oral sex********* Be careful.
But to answer your actual question start off slow. Go with fondling him with his pants where they should be, go to handjobs and finally blow jobs. Take it slow, stay comfortable and STAY SAFE.
A good website for handjob advice (don't worry nothing explicit there) www.handjobadvice.com
You can also Google "handjob technique" or "blow job technique".
When you do move on to blowjobs, use your mouth AND your hands. Pay some attention to his balls and his thighs. His head is most sensitive but there will probably need to be attention paid to the shaft to get him to climax.
Take it very slowly, if he doesn't understand, move on from him.
Good Luck
Go ahead and message me if you have any questions or want a more detailed technique :)
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