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writes: I've been dating this girl for about 4 months and she has had a lot of bad break ups. Now she has a problem with trusting guys. She finally told me yesterday that she trusted me. I really care about her a lot and I was wondering when and how should I continue to build a relationship with her. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 January 2006):
 Just by your wondering about this makes me sure that your relationship is off to the very best start. Have fun and enjoy your new love!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2006): What a refreshing question for a change. You sound like a decent young man who has respect for this young lady you are dating. I respect that. Relationships can be the source of great joy or great pain. They seldom stand still; they're either getting better or getting worse. Your gf has had her share of heartbreak and is cautious and who can blame her. Trust in a relationships takes a long time to get established, dear and if she's trusting you now, after 4 months of dating..consider that a blessing. To ensure she'll always trust you..be honest, communicate openly and don't play 'hurtful' mindgames with her. Never lie to her, never, ever cheat on her and treat her with respect. Always be a genuine caring person who possessed understanding, and sensitivity. Your relationship with her is still in it's infancy. Remember, romantic love is just the first stage of love, and it either evolves into a deeper, richer love—or it withers away. To make love stay strong, you must always face the fear of losing it and consciously work hard at making it a lasting, rish, vibrant love. And that takes incredible trust and honoring each other. Good luck and I wish you both happiness and happy times ahead.
Hugs, Irish
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2006): hello mate, don't worry too much if you really like her and she seem's to like you from what you said it'll all be ok. Trust is a funny thing and she seem's a bit delicate, best advice take things slow, let her know your intentions, be honest and have fun together. be happy mate x
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (24 January 2006):
 If you want a relationship with her, then tell her. If she wants one with you, obviously she'll say she wants one too.
Also, don't do anything to break that trust. Be open with her, don't hide things from her, for the love of Gods don't CHEAT on her, and all will be well. Mainly, use your common sense, and don't do anything untrustworthy.
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