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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend is bisexual. And I'm a male. We have the best sex and she always convinces me we have the most wonderful sex, and it really is.But one time she mentioned she missed the lesbian sex and that she fantasised about women while masturbating.We kind of laughed it off but I'm quite bummed.I feel a little unwanted and unneeded. What should I do?Thank you in advance.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 What's to "help"???? Either you accept this aspect of your girlfriend's personality, or you don't....
In case of the former, you and she need to sit down and determine how it (her bi-sexuality) is going to fit in to your's and her relationship.
If the latter, then you walk away and wish her good luck....
Good luck to both of you....
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Assuming she volunteered this information and wasn't simply responding to your question, you could say to her that if she is hinting about playing the field with women, that being bisexual doesn't mean she gets to have one of each at the same time. That you're not interested in a threesome and that what she said was as callous as it would have been if it were you who had expressed a desire for other women.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Talk to her about it and tell her how it made you feel. I guess she was just trying to be honest with you about how she feels and it must have been hard for her to do this. It does not mean that she doesn't enjoy the sex with you, because am sure in her head it is two very different things and she doesn't compare the two together. Just talk to her and explain to her how it made you feel and see if there is some way you can both move forward from this. Good luck.
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