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writes:My girlfriend has suddenly enjoying looking (or maybe leching) other girls when we go out. Every guy loves looking at sexy girls with nice boobs and sexy feet and shoes. My girlfriend also has started enjoying looking at them and admiring them with me. Is it normal or my girlfriend is getting bisexual?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2014): Thank you for all your answers. I feel *ntrugued3000 has the best answer. I felt my girlfriend was enjoying it sexually but it seems to be only admiration.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 June 2014):
 Maybe she is just beating you at your own game.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (7 June 2014):
 It's perfectly normal. I'm straight, and I still admire a beautiful woman. It's not that I'm attracted to a beautiful woman, but I observe her from head to toe, trying to figure out what makes her beautiful, and then compare myself to her. Call it vain, but I measure myself against her. For example I'd think, "Oh Wow! I wish I had legs like her" or, "Look at her boobs! I wish mine were as perky as hers...hmmm...I wonder if there's a special bra for that?" And so on and so on.
Now when I'm admiring a man, that's when I experience the butterflies in the stomach feeling and begin to blush, and I start thinking, "OH MY! I'd really like to touch..." and "Ooooh! I would really like to kiss those lips".
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2014): Does it make YOU feel insecure?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2014): [edit] If "you" seem to preoccupied with looking at other women; you could be putting your head in a noose.
correction: If "you" seem too preoccupied with looking at other women; you could be putting your head in a noose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2014): I don't understand your concern. Look at the covers of women's magazines. Why would they feature half-dressed women, or women in slinky curvy outfits?
Women admire each other all the time.
They admire hair, makeup, figures, eyes, lips, and check each other out to be sure they keep up with fashion; or to steal ideas.
They also set you up to see how you react to other pretty girls. So be on your best behavior. If "you" seem to preoccupied with looking at other women; you could be putting your head in a noose.
If you like something about other females; they will either be jealous; or fix her hair, or dress similar for you.
Your girlfriend is a people-watcher. She may be less obvious when viewing other men for your sake, and out of respect. Maybe she enjoys checking out other women; because she is very secure and self-confident. She likes critiquing women who have something on the ball. "Leching" as you call it, is just sizing them up; because she knows she's just as pretty, or prettier. There may be some sarcasm in there somewhere too.
So what if she is bisexual? It takes more evidence than "looking" at other women to determine that, my friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2014): My wife isn't bi and she likes looking at women too. I can see men and appreciate very handsome ones too, it means nothing. I don't find them sexually appealing but I do appreciate the beauty of people, or if they have impressive features, like their body or eyes etc.
Your girlfriend just feels comfortable checking out people in front of you.
It's possible but none of that is a sign of anything.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 June 2014):
 Oh btw , I'll add a Politically Correct disclaimer. It should be obvious, but you never know, I would not want anybody piping up with an incensed " how come you say - your Gf is normal- why, if she were bisexual she would be abnormal ?! "
I am using " normal " in the sense of " usual ". While being bisexual or homosexual is perfectly normal , it is not perfectly usual, the heterosexual population is numerically much more. A bisexual person is mentally, emotionally and physically normal, but numerically belongs to a minority so it is unusual.
Just in case.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (7 June 2014):
I don't know... I think your gf is perfectly normal, - or else I am "strange " too.
I thought all women appreciated beauty and harmony and sensuality, in whichever shape and gender ?.. And they surely appreciate beautiful shoes !
I am heterosexual, but I love the shape of female bodies, a beautiful woman catches my eye too. I don't get a SEXUAL stimulation from it, but surely an aestethic, visual pleasure- a pleasure of the senses, so a SENSUAL pleasure.
One of my hobbies is oil painting , my favourite subject are nudes. Of women. I think the female body is amazing - and it does not have to be perfect to be amazing. It's just the mistery, the softness, the carnality, the elegance in it, this misxture of strength and vulnerability , ...I think it's one of the most fascinating sights in the universe.
I also think cats or big felines are a sensual, fascinating sight , I could spend hours looking at a panther or a lion.... yet I never had the desire or impulse to have sex with a panther or a lion ( well, I suppose there would be some practical difficulties anyway, but you get what I mean ): sensual and sexual aren't exactly the same.
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