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writes:My girlfriend left me by e-mail. I thought the relationship was perfect, we never fought, never argued, and when there was a disagreement, we worked it out immediately. We showed and expressed our love for each other on a daily basis. We both had our own problems, and discussed them so we could work them out together. We were truly in love!! She got sick and told me that she didn't want to get me sick, to just stay away for a while. I did that, making sure that she knows that if she needs anything at all to just let me know and I would be happy to do it for her. she expressed how sweet i was for offering, and how much she loved me. i of coarse let her know everytime how much she means to me and how lucky i was to have her. she has other health problems as well, critical ones, i accepted them as part of her and love her no less, and treat her as a normal person, she once told me if it gets to be too much for me that she would understand if i left. that never once crossed my mind. two days before the email, i expressed to her how much i love her and that i miss her, and couldn't wait to see her, she was still sick. I sent her flowers and made sure she knew that i loved her. the email makes no sence to me what so ever. I truly believe she is my soulmate, I don't want to lose her, I love her. I haven't talked to her in two weeks now, giving her space. I did fly off the handle though when i got the email, i think that may have caused more damage. Help me please, this was a perfect relationship, at least in my eyes..
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Hi Hunny
I guess you no by now that flying off the handle maybe wasn't the best way to respond, Even though it must have been a really hard thing to accept after all you have done to understand and help...Hunny we are human so the majority of us would most prob act the same..
I am talking from experience now, I have had a back problem for 5 yrs quite bad at times it took 3yrs for the doctors to sort things out properly until I was not so ill with it, My relationship at the time was good but I felt a total burden even though I had lots of help..Its hard to sometimes accept an illness and the thought of others accepting you is even harder for you to get your head around..This is maybe why she did what she did love if you want to have a chat message me I'm only to happy to talk and explain how hard it can be at times and how as a kind and caring person you dont want to put people including partners through pain because you are going through it TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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