A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: hi,me and gf argue all the time recently,she doesnt trust me even tho i am loyal,she threw her engagement ring away and now we cant find it,she got annoyed cos i said i was goin to pick my mum up and stay the night before she lives 250 miles away,she thinks people dont like her when they do,she thinks i still love my ex of 3yrs ago,what can i do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 October 2007):
I'm sure you've heard women say, "oh all guys", or "guys are like that". People tend to take a single behavior someone in their life displayed and they pin it on the whole sex, instead of leaving it with the person who did it.
Take cheating. People who have been cheated on many times go into the new relationship, with someone who hasn't done anything wrong, believing that at some point during their relationship they new person is going to act in the same manner the last person had.
I would seek counseling. She has some issues that need addressed and worked on. I wish you the best. Take care.
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female
reader, sexi +, writes (1 October 2007):
Hi
It is not what you can do it is what your gf should. She needs to stop being so paranoid. Whtat your gf doesnt know but needs to realize is that constant nagging and accusing pushes a guy away from you. Ask her if that is what she wants? I dont think so. You should get some counselling to help your gf deal with her jealousy.
Good Luck, Mail me if you wanna talk
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