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writes: I have a problem with my girlfriend. We are toghether for 7 months, and everything was going perfect, until this Friday. This girl really cares about me, and loves me a lot, I know it and showed it many times. I love her too, and actually, I can't imagine my close future without her. I'll start with what happened on Friday. She wanted to meet at my home (we are 18, we don't live toghether) to play poker with my friends. I said ok, and arranged everything. A few hours later she changed her mind and then she told me that she want to spend the night together. It was ok. Later, me met at a concert, downtown, and she was so happy because her mother let her spend our entire summer together, at the seaside, working at my fathers hotel. Then she started sending me messages telling me that she loves me alot, and that I mean so much for her. I was very happy...Next day everything changed. In the morning she sent me a message telling me she doesn't come anymore, because she has to study. Later, she wanted to us to meet, and, while I was on my way to her, she called me to ask me to come next day. I got a bit angry, and I told her that I won't come next day because I am busy. She got upset and closed the phone. Then, she didn't answer the phone until today. I asked her if is she still upset, and said no, but she doesn't want to talk. I asked her why, and she insisted she doesn't want to. So, I said: "If you don't want to talk to me, we'll just leave it like that, and that's it?" She quickly replied, a bit scared, keeping on reapating no,no,no.Later, we met at school, but she didn't want to stay with me. I told her that if something happened, she should tell me. She said that nothing certain happened, and that she is just "not ok". The fact is she is ok with other people, she is not ok with me. I don't undersand what happened, because she explained she is not acting like that because of what happened on Saturday, but she is just not ok. Do you have any clue about what is happening with her? Could it be another guy....? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, laurentiu13 +, writes (17 May 2011):
laurentiu13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo answer? :(
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