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writes:I'm Dateing a 16 year old and things r going from worse to worse when i met this girl start of febuary she was sexy smart and good looking everything went well first date went to the movies had a good time after the date we kissed on sunday (5th)took her to collage on wednesday (7th) got a kissFriday (9th) 2nd date we went to a local park of mine to talk we didn't do much talking it just seemed like i was the only person talking we stood outside 2 hrs and we only kissed once and again when i droped her of.Sunday (11th) 3rd date we went to cinema again watched " music and lyrics " and i kept asking her if she was ok we held hands and my hand went numb .. so i put my hand on her leg. i took her home and i got a kiss againi asked her to come 2 my house on v-day for a nice night on the PS2 and watching DVDS better than paying for cinema. she agreedthen she told she couldn't because she was going 2 hospital to see her lil sister whos haveing an heart operation. and she was gonna spend the night at her momsv-day = she came online about 5pm said she been to the hospital and she told me 1 of her friends had turned up and she may goto a party with her brother later. i kept thinking 4 someone who was going 2 stay at her moms all night she kind of had a full night planed in short notice.i planed to see her friday (16th) but she was ill but was well enought to walk to the local drug dealer for her brothers weed.and i said lets met saturday (17th) but once again she was ill and she told me she was fighting with a girl outside for an hr without no coat and wonders y shes so illi was gonna met her on monday (19th) but she now feeling worse she thinks she may be pregnant.i'm not gonna dump her because i'm not like that.i told her 2 tell her family i made her pregnant because her ex was a bully and hes just gone 2 prison for beating her up he got 7 years.she sent me txts last night saying she didn't think this r-ship is working because we dont c each over 2 weeks seen each over 4 times and she thinks i dont trust her. what do u think i sould do? how can i explan to my family a girl i've just started dateing is now pregnant and i wanna support her?my family know we have not had sex so i cant use " its mine"any help would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): Are you absolutely positive this girl is pregnant? It sounds like she may just be using this as a front. No offense, but the girl didnt talk much at the park, didnt hang out with on Valentines day, is always sick and now is pregnant? Sounds like she just isnt into you. sorry buddy, i wouldnt concern yourself with this girl.
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reader, batman  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 You just need to get her to take a test to make sure that she's pregnant and if she is pregnant and you really care about her then tell her that you want to help her out and if she doesn't want to be your gfthen tell her you would like to be friends.xoxo-Batman
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Not trying to be mean or anything hun, but it sounds as if ur relationship is doomed with this girl anyway, if she's not making a concious effort to see you. Taking on someone else's baby is a huge, huge responsiblity, plus you've hardly been with this girl any length of time. Have you thought how much trouble you'd get into with her parents? Is it really worth it for someone you've only been seeing for a couple of weeks? You could help her as a friend perhaps... but perhaps she doesn't want any more than that. You have to be really serious if you're prepared to give up your life for that baby.
However, if you still decide to go ahead with it..
*Make a clear plan of exactly what you're going to say before hand... you have to be really serious if you want your parents to take you seriously
*Tell them what this girl means to you, and that you think she needs your help
*Let them put forward their point of view, and listen to it, you need to show them that you're serious and being mature about this.
*Ask your gf what she wants before hand, are you what she really needs?
This is not something to enter lightly, and perhaps you need to think more before you act.... I mean, do you even know for definate she's pregnant?
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