A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I am a 20 year old male and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been dating year and a half. We do not have sex because we are waiting for marriage. In the past couple of months, she gets in the mood to make out/fool around less and less. When we do hook up (which is becoming no more than every 3 days), it is little more than a 20 minutes make out session, which ends when she feels "fulfilled". She tends to give me a hand job after. There just doesn't really feel like much passion during our hook ups anymore. We have talked about it, and she doesn't seem to care about fixing this problem nor ever fully addressing it as a problem. I don't know what to do. I am tired of being rejected by my girlfriend.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 August 2009):
 I think that you might be hitting that year and a half bump. Sometimes when you get there, there starts a shift in passion... you get into a routine, and you start asking yourself questions about the relationship. You get in a rut and the "new relationship" feeling wears off a bit.
So how do you solve this? By putting fun and new activities back into the relationship. Get the passion pumping again in other areas of your life and your sex life will follow suit.
It doesn't sound like she knows you're feeling rejected. Maybe you could casually bring it up, have a talk? But don't make her feel like crap, try to be open and honest and non-accusatory.
Good luck!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Hi, ok well i think that maybe your girlfriend doesn't
know how you feel, so that's why she's not doing anything
about it. She probably thinks your ok with everything, but
i think that you should try talking to her about this, or
else she will never know your true feelings. It's best not to hide so Good Luck =]
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