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writes: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. She is the first I have been with while I am her 6th. I could have got over this but she kept on going to her exs house at least 2 times a week to cook him dinner and watch movies with him. She even spent 12 hours at his party oncve. We live in different countries so it was hard. I would set time aside to talk to her and every time she would put me on hold and talk to her ex for an nour or so. To make it worse she would get jealous if I went out to a pub with a group of friends and their were females there. She made me feel so worthless. She has since moved to my country but I gave her the condition that if she is living with me I don't want her to have contact with her ex, as it is too excessive and she doesn't take my feelings into account. She agreed but on the second day she recieved an email off him. She lied to me for three months and said it was a group email. But in reality it was a love letter begging her to come back to him and he would pay the airfare. This whole time she didn't have a job so I was working over 60 hours a week(and still am) while she laid on the bed watching tv(of which in that time she put on 7 kgs). Now she does have a job and is trying, but she acts like she has now gone above and beyond the call of duty by working. Most people would leave a gf if she did that but my friends and even my family say a guy like me should be happy for anthing at all. Is it true? Am I being unfair to her?
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (7 February 2006):
 not to be rude but get this fat lazy user out of your life, you can do better and she is best with her ex good luck xxxx
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reader, Morgana +, writes (7 February 2006):
Well... the 7 kgs thing... might be unfair... we all gain weight at some point in our lifes... but the other stuff no... if you guys are in a commited relationship she should not be in contact with her ex at all. I would understand if she had children from him but I don't think this is the case though. But you have two problems my friend, one a girlfriend that is not worth it, and second a family that should shut up. How can they tell you that you should be happy for anything?... Don't settle... if you don't agree with the things that she is doing, just dump her... I don't know her part of the story but hey, nobody should make you feel worthless. NOBODY. Abd if that is what she is doing then she is not the girl for you.
About your family... don't listen to them. Don't settle. Reach for the stars!!!... one might fall one day...
Take care,
Morgana.
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