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writes:Me and my girlfriend have dated for about 5 months now and I love her but she dated my best friend just before me and her. They dated for about 2 months. She told me it was not a big deal at all and it was not serious but if it was not a big deal I don't get why she still gave him a few blow jobs like 4 times and she would not let him go down on her, only finger her. She tells me she only did it when she was real drunk and didnt ever want to but just did. I think 4 times is a lot for only hanging out a handful of times. Is she a slut and can I get over this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs a blow job as big of a deal as sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe wasn't her boy frend she aks like that didn't even date. like that just hung out as frends or drinkin buddys so that's why I don't get it. she tells me she didn't even like him and it was just a crazy time for her . She broke up with her boyfrend of a long time about a month before thay hung out so is that a rebound? I don't thanks for the help peoples
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 October 2009):
Even if she wasn't drunk, it's her own business what she did in the past. Who cares? I'm sure there's a lot more that happened that you don't know about and probably don't need to know about. You shouldn't judge her. I question why you date you best friend's ex girlfriends.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 October 2009):
She's certainly not a slut, and if you're thinking that so early in a relationship, then you're in trouble. Everyone in the world comes with some sort of a past. You need to decide if you can accept it or not. If you can't you need to end this relationship, and realize you're not ready for one yet. All the women you meet will have some sort of past, and it doesn't mean they don't love you. But you need to be able to accept the past. If you can't, never ask about it.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (28 October 2009):
 If you can't get over it, you need to get out of the relationship
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