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writes:My girlfriend is sorta a heavy set lady. I don't have a problem with this at all, I love her with all my heart. But recently she has been saying how she hates her body and that she always has hated her body and nothing will change that. I have said everything I can think of straight from my heart to help her think other wise, but for some reason she still feels the same way. It's not that much of a big deal, she only referred to it once so far in our relationship and I think I handled it well. But what other things could I have done, or do, to help her cope with herself better. Reply to this Question
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reader, Luaris +, writes (7 December 2008):
 I dont want to sound like getting physical is the best solution but it may help reinforce your point. The next time she gets like that tell her what you tell her but then start kissing her maybe to the point of making out just enough to show her you truly enjoy her body and its not just something you tel her.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 I think if u support her in this situation that will be great help for her. Always try to make her busy with something else and make her feel positive with that.
IF she wants to lose her weight then help her by advice but in a positive ways. Make her feel that u r happy with her and body is not a big deal to you. Cause girls r sensitive about their figure cause of guys (maximum) so i hope if u give her backup in this metter she can come over from this problem...
wish u all the best!!!
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